If this weekends party will seem more like Super Bowl Boredom, read on for a new approach to having a super day:
Dear Ron: While I am not interested in sports, my husband is. So off we go to the super bowl once again to be with his co-workers. The event is hosted by his big boss so it’s a real big blow out in a beautiful home. I know a few of the wives, but I am in another generation from them so at times, conversation is disconnected about things. I pretend to watch the game, cheer and carry on when everyone else does… but I am just beside myself with boredom. What tips can you give me on how to live through this annual “holiday” gathering. — Super Bowl Boredom.
Dear Super Bored: Seems like there are two approaches to take here. If there aren’t any workplace appearance concerns, why not talk with your husband about skipping the party this year and give yourself a break? But if attending is something that is more of an expectation, then change the reason you are going. Here are some tips to bring the to game day party:
More than a game
See it as more than just watching the big game. There are others there who may only be interested in watching commercials… talk about that. Make it a pointed effort to get to know the “significant others” and learn at least one things about them… even if it comes down to their name. Bust the super bowl boredom by focusing your attention around the room.
Change the view
Try to keep yourself moving throughout the party area and as you do, spend time admiring the new view of the action. This also gives you the opportunity to keep talking to others rather than staying stuck in one spot. It also will make you a part of the party rather than watching from the sidelines.
Join ‘Em
And perhaps if you can’t beat ’em, join ’em and learn something about the game. Tracking something as simple as the number of times a score is made gets you to follow along without having to learn all those rules. You can also talk to others about the city the game is in (New Orleans for this year) and ask if people have ever been there.
You can do it! By reframing the situation — taking a fresh look at an old perspective — it can help you to make a touchdown at the event or a simple pass if you stay home.
